I cannot understand

In your second posting you said that you excused yourself with her, so ok you admitted a mistake that you've done (hope it’s not one of those mistakes that is irreparable!) But anyway, you made you apologies and that's it.

Now if she’s doing her best to get at you the only thing to do is ignore her and her actions. If you ask her to stop again she knows that what she’s doing to you is actually working (since you want it finished).

So please do not let people put you down. I can understand better now the need of the other thread. Just be yourself and cut her out. Might seem difficult but it works because they will stop the moment they feel ignored.

Good luck and take care!

Karen