Pam, if you see this, I truly hope and pray with all my heart that you reconsider coming back after awhile. It truly broke my heart when I found out you had decided to leave. I realize some hurtful and upsetting things were said in DH... It is a big reason that I often stay clear of the stickier topics. Some would say it's always best to state how you feel, but for me I take things too personally and let things upset me, and often, as I'm sure you know, debates on message boards can get especially heated. But I'd rather there be no DH at all if the end result is losses like this to our community here.

I hope with all my heart this is temporary. I loved seeing your beautiful furkids and family, and your warm and compassionate posts made Pet Talk a brighter place. I sure miss you Pam