Kim,

You and your situation are on my mind. I really hope she'll see that she has it good and the only thing that sneaking out will do will diminish trust and get her into all forms of trouble.

I love the ideas so far. It sounds like she needs to be retaught the rules of the house. I love Staci's idea. You can come from the perspective of "kids who sneak out do drugs, have sex and drink, therefore, we're getting you drug tested, do we need to test for other things too??" Once she realizes that only a "child" behaves this way, and thus will be treated like one, maybe she'll want to act mature and be honest.

The bells/chimes on her door are another great idea!

How did hubby do on the couch last night?