Debbie - how do you use patience?? Sometimes I think I am doing so well and end up leaping backwards... Worse is hubby is out of patience with her so I'm trying to have patience and shield her from hubby and hubby from her. He heard me yelling at her this morning - she attacked my feet and ankles and then came at me again and so it is hard to reason with hubby and yell at Meka too.......Debbie