Jen I'm so pleased you're seeing a counsellor - and will it work - YES. YES. YES!!
You must be painfully honest with yourself - it'll hurt and you'll cry - and come out the other side feeling 'whole'.
And look what I've just found.....................[[[[[[[[[[HUGS. HUGS. HUGS. HUGS. HUGS. HUGS. HUGS.]]]]]]]]]]
Your in my thoughts sweetheart
Love Lynne xx