also I am certainly certainly certainly (did I say certainly) not suggesting that she is doing drugs at alllllllllll but another scare tatic is at our hospital parents can bring their kids in for a drug test. I know a coworker who caught her teenage (at the time) son with a joint she brought him out there and I don't believe she ever had a problem with that again. Might be worth calling the local hospital to see if they have the same policy.....