No, were not married... But the times I do take the girls its my choice. She doesn't ask me to babysit all the time its just I feel I have the right to say no and not have him all mad cuz I did... I maybe could see his point if I never payed any attention to his sisters, but I do spend a lot of time with them and I'm not saying I don't enjoy it or hate it its just I wish he could see it like I dont have to do this I do it for him and his family... I dont think they're taking advantage of me I think Brain just expects me to bend over backwards to please his parents whether I like it or not..... Maybe I was just mad and I guess if she really wanted to go out I could have babysat her 3 kids.... I just want him to be thankful for the time I do spend with his sisters...