Kim, I hate the situation you are in. Reading all this advice makes me worry even more for you. Gosh...being a parent is the hardest job, at least in my opinion.

I like the idea on calling the police as soon as she "escapes".

I'm so glad your hubby had some time to think about things. That's an excellent idea for him to gaurd the exits...

I hope she stops this. I'll be praying she comes to her senses soon.