I have thought about another cat for her which would also give her someone to play with - she could play 24/7 but she getts overly excited doing it. And this from a cat that would NOT play at all for the first few days to a week...... BUT hubby said "no way". Not only about just having another cat but he thinks she likes having the house and us to herself. We travel a lot and have to stay in an RV on land over some weekend and she travels ok - two I'm not sure about... So do you guys think I should force pet her or just let her alone? If I stay away will she come to me??? Debbie