oh Kim!!! I sure do feel frustrated and with you. That "meow" response probably would have set me off

Does your area have a curfew? If so, what I would do is call the police and just have her arrested if she gets out again. It probably sounds harsh - but it could spare her from something much, much worse. It scares me to think what could happen to her. My middle son was arrested once and it scared the sanity back into him. I am glad it happened.