I began reading this thread and was going to say that I never snuck out, but after further thought, what I did was pretty much sneaking out.

I lived with my mom, who is very controlling and strict as far as what people do. I had a friend who had parents that would let her do whatever just to get her off their backs. Every weekend, I'd spend the night over there and we'd go out until whenever we wanted, doing whatever we wanted. There are some things that I know the only reason bad things didn't happen were because of God. We were stupid. While we didn't do anything bad, bad things really could have happened.

I think having a mom that make known what is excepted of me helped me not be involved in anything like drugs or sex. I would be at parties and tended to be the one to watch out for my friends when they passed out or found a guy to hang out with.

Your punishment for your daughter is just. Just be sure it stays. My brother had the same mom, but could be good for two days and not be in trouble anymore. It was a mistake, to put it politely.