My girl Cody has been treated for hormone related incontinence since shortly after her spaying and has responded well to a daily dose of phenylpropanolamine, Proin, 50 mg twice daily. DES, diethylstilbesterol, is another drug option, though it has fallen somewhat out of favor in past years due to some potentially adverse side effects. lv4dogs and Logan have given you great advice. You're not alone Please check backafter you speak with your vet! Hugs to your pup!