With past UTI infection from one of your cats..you need a box handy at ALL times.You should explain that too him.The way I got through to my husband is to totally FLIP out on him.He usually listens then.Woman are dangerous when pissed off.So show him your good side.LOL
My husband is very good.But in the beginning he played stupid a lot.Just the first 2 years though.He came around.And he's accually a big help now..with a smile I might add.