Don't feel quilty. Right now what we do with Gracie and Gabe is we play with them for a couple hours before bedtime and then once they fall asleep Mark and I take them down to the living room where they have their beds and we have them sleep downstairs for now. This way they are close to their food and their litter boxes.

I know people would say that that is very unfair but I also have 5 other kitties that are set in their ways and until they get used to G&G being around that is what works best for us.

This weekend I am going to have a trial run of G&G staying upstairs with us in one of their beds.