Kimmy,

I'm so sorry to hear about Andy. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ask the hospital if they have Reiki Therapy. If they do, have them do it on Andy before he goes into surgery. It's relaxation therapy where he wears headphones that play relaxing sounds like waves, waterfalls, etc., and the massage therapist does a relaxing type of massage on him. Believe me, it works!! I had it done when I had my hysterectomy. They even let me wear the headphones into the OR. Please, check it out. It'll definitely help Andy during this stressful time.

My love and hugs to you both!

Donna