I'm so sorry for you loss. Right now I don't think there are too many things that can be said that will comfort you right now. I know that when I lost my beloved Tony in 1999...no matter what anyone said it just did not seem to help.

Just know that Phoebe is looking down on you from the RB and is at peace.

Play hard over the RB Phoebe. My Tony and Tobias will be there to become friends with.