I agree Aly. I am unable to have kids and consider my marriage no less legitiamate than those who can and do!!!

And I believe with every fiber of my being, that those of same gender persuaision were born that way and that we should love and embrace them as I believe God does. Forgive me if that sounds patoronizing.

Being gay a choice? A very intelligent and wise (and straight) older male friend of mine once asked a big, hulking, heterosexual male friend of his while having that debate...

"Ok, so one male chooses to be gay. So, when did you CHOOSE to be heterosexual???"

He didn't know how to reply because yes, he had never thought about it because it was never a concious choice.