The only advice I have is to give it time. Even the most vile of enemies eventually learn to tolerate each other over time, and I don't think you've got that to worry about. Just keep introducing them slowly. If you can, put something like a baby gate or something in the doorway of the bedroom so they can see each other and sniff each other, but can't get at each other.

It's so sweet that your hubby wants to keep him already. Wish some of your hubby would rub off on Terry.

my email address is [email protected], so go ahead and send away! I'd be glad to post them for you.