((((Gary)))). I think she is hidding from the PAIN, not you! The pain has her spooked, she dosen't understand why her mouth is hurting.. Are we ALL not grouchy when we are in pain??? I know I am VERY grouchy! It is the pain darling, not you. Just talk to her is reassuring tones and let her know you are there.. I doubt she feels like eating right now with her mouth hurting. Offer her some broth, nothing solid.