This is a very sad way to come to PT but we are glad your here. Your pain is very understood and we certainly will be praying for Phoebe. I hope that the antibiotics kick in and it's just an infection. You sound like a wonderful cat mom who is putting Phoebe's wellfare ahead of all else. Phoebe is a very lucky girl to have such a caring and wonderful family.
Please keep us posted on how you and Phoebe are doing.