Thanks Catfamily and Catnapper

I asked the Vet why she couldn't just take X-rays to find out whether it's a tumor or infection, but she said a biopsy is the definitive way!

She went on to say that if it indeed is a tumor, that the only treatment is to start removing parts of poor Phoebe's jaw

At almost 19, I obviously won't be doing that, so I couldn't see why I should her put her through any surgery what so ever.

It's very nice to find a place where I could come and talk about what's going on. I have 2 other cats, and it seems like this will be a fun place to talk about "good times", too!