I totally agree with guster girl. I too don't mean to be rude or insensitive however your cat was your FIRST responsibility not just a thing and deserves your time and attention and love also. I just can't believe that one baby takes up so much time you can't sit with your cat in your lap for a little while? Or play with it while the baby is napping? And I have heard all the same things about cat hair and dander. Perhaps sitting down with a cat brush and your cat for about 10 minutes a day would solve many problems.

Denyce