Purrley,

What worked for Kobieeli worked for us with Tobi. Buffy is another story. She will always want to lead and not walk next to our side.

Just don't give her so much leeway on the leash so she'll learn she has to keep up with your pace and not the other way around. Buffy is a year old and Maggie still has to say "no-no" when Buffy is in her own little world and tries to go her own way. Like you stated, fortunately she is very tiny and with a small pull on the harness we can guide her. Little by little Buffy's getting the message, but not soon enough. Most of the time Maggie just winds up carrying her.