KayAnn, don't feel too bad about having a short fuse. We all get to that point at various times, maybe more than we care to admit. It was very good of you to apologize though, and that can mean the world to others who may have unkowingly taken it personally. Most of us here have known you for a long time and know what a sweet generous girl you are. Of course that doesn't mean you shouldn't get angry when it warrants. Just choose your battles carefully and make sure they are worthy of the effort and that your words convey what you really mean.
I am so sorry about your dad. My dad was very ill when I was your age, so I know about all the ramifications that can have in a young girls life and in a family. And it is wonderful that Simba can be there to comfort you when you need it. But try not to let yourself stay down and depressed for too long. Simba needs the Happy, Fun Loving KayAnn too. He needs his playtime and exercise. Sometimes when I feel like I don't want to do anything, knowing that Hannah and Tucker need to get their playtime and fresh air will motivate me to go outside even when I don't feel like it. Then after I am out there and realize the joy of the the wind in my face and the blue sky above and a funny crazy little dog, it really changes my mood. So let Simba comfort you, but don't forget to take a walk or do activities with him for his sake, and you might find, like I do, that it can lift your spirits as well.
And remember KayAnn, we here at Pet Talk, care very much about you. You are never alone. And Lynne was right. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you can't come out of feeling down. Your school couselor, psychologist, or even school nurse may be a source for help if you can't find it elsewhere.
Rachel
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