I'd be glad to help financially, too.
My opinion: Surgery and attempted taming. If he really doesn't want to be tamed, let him back into the park after healing. Meds can be compounded into pills that can be crushed and put in food. He would have to live in a cage for a while. As long as he's not freaking out (panic attacks) in the cage, he may realize that people are trying to help. A cover on the cage for a while might alleviate his initial fears.
I've had some in cages for three weeks that suddenly decide to be sweethearts---and some that just don't want to be with people no matter what.
Let us know how we can help.
Mary
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