Well,
That's why I don't like meeting people in bars.
I can not talk to someone first.
Matthew on the other hand, can walk right up to any stranger in a bar (or any place for that matter) & start up a conversation! I ask him how he does it?! He just doesn't care what people think of him. He told me if they ignore him...oh well their loss & if they talk that's cool too!
I guess I feel that women in general are harder to meet & talk to. It seems like a competitive issue with them or something, like there always has to be something to prove!
Don't get me wrong I LOVE TO TALK....Matthew gives me crap all the time. The first time he & I met he said all I did was talk, talk, TALK!!!!
Like I said, I just wish I had more "girl" friends to hang out with or talk to! It's REALLY hard meeting people but the ones I do meet always say....that I'm nice to talk to & I listen well, GO FIGURE!!!!

Tina