I'm so sorry to hear your bad news!
My thoughts are with you in this time of sadness!

One of my co-workers had breast cancer & had both breasts removed. This was before I started working with her. I have heard her stories though & it's definitely no laughing matter.
She lost all her hair & now wears a costume made breast set. She took it out and showed me one day...it looked very uncomfortable & hot to wear. It just so amazing that she pulled through.
"I wish it would have been the same for your dear friend!"
I am sorry!
Tina