It makes me very sad to read how poorly you were treated. I cannot imagine a superior making such rude and personal comments to you, let alone a co-worker. How you stood it, day in and day out, I don't know! I would have been a nervous wreck, and like you, would have found myself so worked up that I would have made mistakes too.

But, having said that, I would move on and forget about them. It's been a year, as you said, you would be committing career suicide to go back and try to sue them now. I think maybe you would be better off trying to look forward, rather than backward. Otherwise, you are going to wallow in this, spend a lot of money on attorneys and you're still not going to be able to undo what was done and said to you.

I'm going to remember you in my prayers, and hope that you can find the strength to move forward, and find the perfect situation for you where you can be happy and productive.

Logan