Lisa, I would love to share his story again with all of you. A friend of my hubby's had a female that had babies. My hubby kept telling me about this little kitty that was sooooo cute. I said, "NO, no more cats," as I was still grieving from the loss of my first kitty I ever had on my own. My RB Captain. Well he kept talking about this one kitty and I just kept ignoring him. Then I said, unless it's a female, I don't want it. Well one night, I fell asleep on the couch and was awakened by the most cutest little fuzzball I have ever seen. I checked it out and said to the hubby, "This is a male, NOT a female." He said, "Okay, i'll take him back then," and went to reach for him. I said, "Don't you DARE touch my baby." That is how my C-Fer came to be.
From day 1, he would sleep on top of my head every night. But when he got heavier (25lbs) it got a bit too much for me, so he got his own pillow to sleep on beside my head. He always had to have his paw on my shoulder though. He and I had such a bond with each other that I have never had with any of my other cats.
Here is that picture Lisa that you requested of me and my BIG guy.