Robin,
I am sooo sorry that you have to deal with this....

I do agree with the others...Get Jasper,Piddle and your cats,Get some books,music,computer...whatever you are comfortable with...and just keep to your self...in your room....bring jasper and piddles leashes with you,so when they have to go out,you hitch them up In your room,and go from Point A to Point B...

Let the "Adults" deal with each Other....and stay out of their way...

Let us Know how you are doing!!!