Oh my gosh, a double whammy for you. I'm so so sorry. Your heart must be breaking in two. I pray that you will come up with the resources to get you there quickly. At her side, don't be afraid to tell her all things you want to say. It's important that she knows how much you value the friendship and all that other stuff you want to say.

{{{HUGS}}}
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