Thanks a lot for your nice advices.
I will be more patient she deserves it. Actually today morning she just came to my lap and sit there for 37 minutes heheh I was soo happy. Cats are very strange somehow Do you think she might be maltrated in her past home? because she is like a wild cat, specially when I take her to the vet, is almost imposible for him to handle her. First I have to spend hours trying to put her in her cage to take her there, then for taking her out of it when we are in the vet is worse hehhehe.
She is supose to be an apartment cat, but she was given away to someone else because of allergy problems so she had to stay living in another house and there she was living in the garden (duhhhh) do you think this might be the reason for her attitude?
Well I apreciate all your time and help and Capablanca says that thanks for telling her cute also your cats are gorgeus