Jennifert, You are doing the right thing. While I'm sure it's not something you are looking forward to doing, realizing it is something you must do and going through it shows how much you love Duncan!

Just as Carrie said, YOU CAN DO IT! One thing you may want to do now too is to put Duncan at the end of the recognition list. When you get home go about your business of greeting everyone in your home but Duncan. Wait about 10 minutes or so and then if he is calm, acknowledge him with a calm greeting. Show him NO favoritism. Feed him last, talk to him last, DON'T let him sleep in your bed!

Keep us posted on what the behavorist says and most of all GOOD LUCK! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.