Oh Amy, my dear friend, I wish I'd seen this sooner. I'm praying and praying and praying that Toby will be fine.

You are NOT a bad mom for not noticing sooner. They fool us sometimes and make us think it's just a bug, or that they're ok when they're not. I know how much you love Toby, Squid, and Ollie. Those kids are EVERYTHING to you and I know, that you know that you haven't let Toby down. You're just worried and scared, as anyone would be.

I hugged Chester & Millie and said a little prayer for Toby & you. I don't pray often, so I don't know how much weight my voice carries, but PTer's prayers are miraculous.

Please, please keep us updated.