Thanks Carrie, I'll try the idea of grapes next to her bowl so she feels it is her turn to eat. She has always been a high anxiety submissive type dog and I'll do anything to help relieve that. I think she's part whippet and she seems to have whippet skittishness.

I cannot do 3 times a day due to work, but can do 2 times. This weekend her bowl sat empty most of the day til what is now her feeding time. After my boyfriend and I ate I filled her bowl, didn't look at her - in 10 minutes the bowl was clean!! I think she'll do fine, she's happy with her food (Innova) and she isn't super nervous anymore. I'm hoping the regular food schedule makes her feel even more secure.

Thanks again, you give great advice