Believe me, Debbie, I don't think it makes much sense either. Supposedly they are doing "secret" stuff My brother disapeared when I was 12 and I just reciently (right after new years this year) saw him for the first time since then. I really do love my brother and his family. My sister in law came for a few days last week with my neice. She is coping well but is still very sad. My niece has a "daddy doll" (a beanie baby soldier) that Jeremy sent her (awfully cute). She doesnt go anywhere without it.

I just want him to be safe

Thanks logan, I'll pass the word on as best I can.

My SIL Amanda and my Nice Karyssa