Originally posted by robinh
The other thing I've found helpful is the first time she says anything say "I appreciate your view on a lot of things, but the dogs are part of my family and we won't be getting rid of them. So I would appreciate it if you would not dwell on the idea that you would not have them if this were your house. This is our house and they'll be staying. Let's agree to disagree about this issue and enjoy your stay here."

I'd also put a sign "A house is not a home without the patter of doggie feet" somewhere very noticeable in the house. That's what my daughter-in-law has above her back door.
thats a great idea! i sure would do that if i were you.Like put one on the front door,or somewher where everyone see's it! I hope that it doesnt become a big fight or anything,prayers are with you