Chrissy, my heart goes out to you. After such a sudden death it's hard to come to grips with everything. Talking about it is good. Years ago my friend Carol lost her husband tragically from a fall from the 14th floor of a highrise. He was a construction worker. Carol said that the best therapy was to talk about it right away, and that she did. She also encouraged her children, then 6, 8, and 9 to talk about it too. It really helped in the healing.

56 is such a young age to be taken. RIP Uncle Jerry.