Kay, I don't know what to tell you about the fish, but if it were me and I was faced with what you are from a transportation standpoint, I think I'd do what I can to protect the tank, leave food and leave the fish at home. I know it isn't a great alternative, but either way, they are at risk.

I wish you and your family the best of luck in this situation. I know you just have to be sick of this weather.

Logan