You will NOT hurt her by scruffing her. THe more skin you get in your hand, the better. Grab a handful off the back of her neck, and pull your hand back, so her mouth is facing up ..... then pry her mouth open with your other hand ..... and place the pill as far back on her tongue as you can, then quickly push it down the hatch with your pointer finger. If you have her scruffed enough and her head tilted back enough, she will not bite you!

Good luck!