Thank you for all of your replies. I did end up talking with him. I did tell him that I have allready seen it and that I was more numb with it then I was moved. I said that I didn't know If I would be comfortable with the movie and I was scared. He is a very understanding boyfriend and he respects me very much. So he said that he understood and we would figure somthing out. He also did not want to make me feel uncomfortable ether. I talked to my mum and she said she talked to his mum and she said his mum wasn't to keen on him watching it ether. She wasn't sure how he would take it. SO, he ended up taking me to another movie. I took my sister with us that way she wouldn't feel left out. she wanted to see the Princes Diaries 2 so that is the movie we watched. Well, that was a big jump in catagories huh? Well anywho, thank you so much for your input. I appreciate it a lot!and no, the passion is deffinetly not an eat food take a date kind of a movie! lol