oh carla you are definatley the adopter of waifs and now handicaps! Good for you! is marshall ok with newbie, and is husband ok with newbie? and how did I miss your tactics on getting him in or did you not post your tactic? Well, alls well that ends well, and you are now like me. door is locked. no more. Sigh. It is so hard but there is only so much space and so much money and so much tolerance from the others.... When i had a big apt, things were so different... well, kisses to new baby boy!!