Hi Everyone!
Ok I have deleted my temp internet files and cookies. Seeing if now I can post here. Toby is doing great! He even attempted a mutual grooming session with Casper yesterday. They did well for about 2 mins until Casper decided it was playtime. lol Toby's mouth has healed very nicely and the drooling has stopped. He still likes the Whiskas pouches so we stay stocked up on it. Normally I feed them in separate rooms to avoid any confrontations. The door was cracked and Casper had gotten into where Toby was eating. I ran in as soon as I saw the door cracked thinking oh no they are going to fight. My mouth dropped as there they sat side by side eating away from the same dish with no conflict! All three of them are sharing 3 litter boxes too. Toby and Casper even chased each other around last night playing like they should instead of getting upset like Toby used to. Saber is taking a little longer to trust Toby now but I think he is showing signs that he will soon. He has been watching Casper and Toby alot and I am hoping will soon join in. I have been doing play therapy with the three of them three times a day from a book by Pam Johnson Bennett a feline behavior consultant. It reallys seems to have made a difference in Toby and how they get along. Plus I do a play session alone with Toby so he can be the victor and catch the prey everytime. (A toy at the end of a string on a wand. lol)

Thanks for your care and concern about Toby it has been truly appreciated. (Crossing fingers that this works.)

Xena