Originally posted by Pam:
I don't know if this really applies, but my daughter has had the same sort of a problem with her cat. The cat's owner had 4 very small little boys who carried Gabe all around (like you said, his feet barely ever got to touch the ground!) Well to this day, Gabe will only allow my daughter or son-in-law to pick him up, although he once allowed me to have that privilege. Gabe was only a little kitten (maybe 8-9 wks.) when she got him) but we have often wondered if those early weeks scared him in some way. He seems afraid of strangers even now, two years later. If you visit often enough and he "gets to know" you he is more relaxed but still won't allow anyone to pick him up. I think it sounds like the same problem. Daisy is a lovey now, but only with family that she sees quite often, I can't allow her near children, she is very vocal in her dislike of them, so we have to be very careful. Luckily we are retired so spend our time home and no small children. We have two grandsons 6 and 11 and we have to put Daisy and Perry outside while they are here.
She will come to us now, but only on her terms and we are allowed to pick her up for a minute to pet her and then she wants down, we let her go at her own pace.
Thanks for the note, glad to know there are others out there like her.

[This message has been edited by Pam (edited January 09, 2001).]