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I let the kittens eat and take a long nap and then I went in after them. The little gray one didn't fight me at all this time and I loved and snuggled her for a while. I passed her over to hubby and he held her too. She seemed relaxed and kind of dozed.
The buff is going to be a love muffin! No problem holding that one. I loved him for bit and then passed him over to hubby. Hubby let him walk around on his tummy and I swear that baby climbed right up to hubby's face and head butted him!! The next thing we knew he was purring up a storm. I think this one is going to be a real sweetie!
I think the little gray will too but I think she is kind of sickly. I just hope she's not in pain with her back legs. I think she's just sleepy and glad to have a comfortable dry place to sleep and her belly is full.
The third kitten looks so sad on the porch alone but everything I have tried has been in vain. That one is smart and slick. It's going to prove to be a challenge but I will win!!!

Thanks to everyone for the nice comments. I hope your ready to pick me up when I have to give them up!