Yes, I agree with everyone and thanks for sharing. She does think I am a great, big, powerful, mama cat from whom all goodies come. So she does test the waters and asks permission before coming aboard. I have had cat pets for over forty years. She is the first I have seen do this. Yes, it melts my heart too. I feel most honored even chosen. And because of this warm approach she never gets turned down. Clever little charmer too! treybabe