Lacey - is there any way you can deny him access to your bed - shut the door or something?

I don't think he is getting the idea of time out and the more he does it will make it more of a habit. Could you put a huge piece of plastic over your bed like maybe the kind they wrap furniture in? I don't think he would like the feel of that and it would stop him from using your bed.

I wished I knew of something that would help.