Well, first off, everyone knows that I want every usable organ to be donanted to another human in need. I don;t know about cremation vs. burial. I guess I'd leave that up to the remaining family.. whatever would make them come to terms best. Would they feel better burying a casket or scattering my ashes somewhere they thing I'd be happy? I do know that if they had a casket I do NOT want an open casket. A huge family fight happened when my grandmom died. It was her last wish to have a closed casket and my uncle ignred it and made the funeral home have an open casket viewing.

I want a huge party CELEBRATING my life afterwards. I don't want people sitting around bawling their eyes out I want them to laugh and tak about how their lives were touched by me. Tell funny stories of the dumb things I've done (I'm an airhead who means well, so I tend to do some really air-headed things.) I want them to talk about those things and walk away with happy memories instead of sad ones. That is also why I don't want an open casket... because I don't want their last memory of me to be one of a waxen looking body in a casket.. I want them to remember me as a lively vital person.