Don't worry folks. I'm another dingbat that always tells my cats when I'll be back. I sometimes joke with them and say "guard the house while I'm gone!" (The thought of that makes me laugh since they most likely go into one of their deep sleeps when I am gone and would never hear even the noisiest burglar!)

Margaret I think it would be nice if you got Saima a cat buddy. I was a one cat person for three years and then added a second kitty. They get along real well and even groom each other and sleep together in a little "cat pile." It is something to think about, but I think Saima may enjoy a pal and you wouldn't have your guilt about leaving her all alone.