Originally posted by Cataholic
I am mostly concerned about your reaction to what was going on. While it doesn't sound like Sophie was being hurt, someone was invading your personal comfort zone. You said you were upset by it....so, why not instantly say, "hey, you might think I am over reacting, and maybe I am, but, I am not comfortable with the way you are handling Sophie". That way, your personal feelings are addressed first and foremost, and second, there isn't any danger of hurting Sophie.
I agree with you, Cataholic. I wanted to say something, but my only thing was that I was drinking at the time, and I didn't want to get mad, blow up and say something I would regret later. I was trying to hold myself back from saying something also because I was afraid I wasn't seeing things right since I was not completely sober. Plus I can be a bit rude when I drink - so I just let my boyfriend handle it for me.